
Praying in Faith for our Children
I used to feel so defeated, so discouraged as I prayed for my children. When I prayed I had a picture of them in my head, but it was a picture of them as they were then, with all their struggles, trials, difficulties, misbehaviors, attitudes; I prayed what I saw before my eyes. God showed me that this was the wrong way to pray for my children. This is praying BY SIGHT not BY FAITH.
Faith is defined in Hebrews 11:1 New American Standard Bible:
Now faith is the assurance of things hoped for, the conviction of things not seen.
So in order to have faith, we have to have “things hoped for”. What things do you hope for your children? As a mom, I know you can see the giftings and uniqueness in each of your children. I know you have dreams for them. THAT is a “thing hoped for”. Hoping for what they will be, who they will become, that is what you base your faith on. So when you pray for your children, have that HOPE and DREAM for your child before your eyes. That is praying IN FAITH for them.
One of our children at 5 years old, asked if she could look at a science book with nature pictures by herself instead of me reading to her for our before bed reading time. She had just started reading but still was so interested in that science book that she wanted to put all her focus into it. That was unusual for a child to do that. I took note. I treasured that in my heart. Today this child is a young adult who is in horticulture school and who has a job working with plants. She comes home from school with these amazingly beautiful flower arrangements as she is learning her craft. That was something I saw in her at a young age, that is something I prayed for her and hoped for her.
Many times as you pray for your child, you will be praying for things “not seen”. You might not see the character you want them to have when they hit their sibling. You might not see the steadfastness in their walk with God, when they are older and are not reading their Bible as much as you think they should. You might not see the kindness you think they should have, as they yell at you when they are mad. But good news! What you see today is not who they will be eventually. So instead of feeling discouraged by the things you are NOT SEEING today, or the things you wish were present now but are not there, pray and believe God that those NOT SEEN things will be there one day. Pray, believing that God can and will build in your child the things you HOPE FOR. That is praying IN FAITH.
And you can pray in faith and then EAGERLY WAIT for what you hoped and prayed for. Romans 8:24b-25 NASB shows us:
…but hope that is seen is not hope; for who hopes for what he already sees? But if we hope for what we do not see, with perseverance we wait eagerly for it.
As you pray in HOPE for your children, you can wait eagerly for that hope to be fulfilled. It will happen. There have been discouraging times we have had with our children, but we kept praying, hoping, waiting, and God came through. We PERSEVERED in prayer for our children. Don’t give up hope as you persevere in prayer for your children.
For younger children, plant those seeds of the Word-lots of them! And pray for them to fall on good soil in your child’s heart. For older children, where you have planted seeds already, as you pray, talk to the Lord of the Harvest and ask Him to help those seeds grow!
So moms, as we pray,
LET’S PRAY IN FAITH FOR THE THINGS WE HOPE FOR OUR CHILDREN AND WAIT FOR THEM EAGERLY. .
In His Love,
Suzanne













